Hi, I'm Aatik. I help high achievers find a more sustainable way to live, without sacrificing their ambition.
Who I serve
My clients come to me having reached a breaking point and acknowledge that more force is no longer the solution.I have a track record of adding unique value to people who are at one of two junctures:
Obsessed with what they build, but their old ways are not working like they used to and now seek a new way of operating; or
Accomplished in their field, but realize they don't resonate with their work, and now seek to prioritize joy in their career.
My coaching is not for you if:
You’re looking solely for productivity systems or accountability coaching.
You want quick fixes or step-by-step frameworks.
You need therapeutic support (which I fully respect and can refer you to).
My coaching is for you if:
Your previous definition of success is no longer relevant, or maybe even working against you.
You want to navigate a unique period of change (e.g. career pivot, parenthood) with intentionality.
You're curious how to build a life that feels effortless without sacrificing ambition.
My approach
I'm the "third door" version of coaches. Most coaches will either tell you to try harder (accomplish more) or stop trying altogether (move to the jungle).I propose a third option: to try differently, one where you don't have to keep struggling, nor escape your life.I've been told I'm equal parts compassionate and intense. I care to deeply understand you while simultaneously holding you to the highest standard you've set for yourself.
My core philosophies
These have emerged directly from coaching previous clients:
Agency Within Ambiguity: The power to make intentional choices and maintain control over your responses, even when the future is uncertain and the path ahead is unclear.
Energy Optimization Over Time Management: Recognizing that everything is either energy restoration or energy utilization, and that managing your energy is more important than managing your time.
Enoughness: Understanding when you have sufficient resources, achievements, or effort, and recognizing that you are worthy as you are without constantly needing more.
The Wise Self vs Inner Child: Accessing your mature, thoughtful self to make decisions rather than letting your reactive, conditioned inner child drive your choices.
Service Through Presence: Being fully present and in service to others paradoxically energizes you more than self-absorption, creating positive-sum relationships.
Consequences Over Obligations: Recognizing that you always have choices - you're simply choosing based on which consequences you're willing to accept, not because you're truly obligated.
High Standards on Input, Not Output: Focusing on the quality of your process and effort rather than tying your self-worth to outcomes you can't fully control.
Structure
We begin with a 3-month engagement at $7000/month. We then decide together on a cadence that makes the most sense for you.Note: I am open to flexible pricing if your financial situation requires it, as money should not be an obstacle to your truest self.
The 3-month engagement includes:
2× one-hour sessions per month
Async coaching via texting and email between sessions
A Coaching Hub including reflection prompts, session highlights, post-session exercises, and content tailored to your growth.
Begin Here.
It's a good signal to explore coaching together if you've reached this point and are feeling curious and optimistic.
Why Aatik?
I do my best to walk the walk. I’ve left high-status careers to focus on one that makes me the best version of myself. I’ve taken pay cuts to teach in public schools and coach incarcerated Indigenous people to reintegrate into society. I took my craft to the highest level and then took an 8-month sabbatical once my first child was born. I’ve honoured each unique chapter in my life, proven by my track record of intentional pivots over the past decade.
I treat every new chapter in life as a lab. I formulate hypotheses based on my values and listening to what life is trying to tell me. I then run experiments (take actions) and iterate based on what is learned every step of the way.
I've dedicated my life to maximizing attention and depth of presence. My life is an application of what I've studied and practiced: original Stoic texts (mostly Seneca), a lot of East Asian philosophy (Krishnamurti, Buddha, Suzuki, Trungpa), and integrated modern teachers' tools from the likes of Tim Ferriss, Byron Katie, among others. I'm here to share what I've painstakingly curated over the past decade.
Testimonials
When I first started coaching with Aatik, I knew something had to change in my life, but I couldn’t put my finger on it. Aatik helped me develop my self-awareness, asked the right questions for me to pinpoint the problems and supported me in my journey in implementing the solutions. He has a deep level of care, intentionality and curiosity that I’ve never experienced with other coaches. Coming out of our engagement, I underwent a substantial career transformation. Working with Aatik has helped me feel much more optimistic about my life and has given me a new toolkit for dealing with problems. — Ankur B. (Founder)
I can't recommend Aatik enough. He has not only helped me become the best version of myself but also guided me to uncover my true values and align them with my career goals. His support and insights have been life-changing, giving me a fresh perspective on both my personal and professional life. In my personal career journey, I struggled with finding the right path that truly maximized success. This over-calculated mindset led me down a path that, while productive, wasn’t fulfilling. Aatik helped me realize a direction that resonates with who I genuinely want to become. Since embracing this newfound clarity, I’ve been living every day authentically for myself, and it’s an incredible feeling. — Alec N. (Software Engineer)
I was introduced to Aatik during a point in my life where I was facing major crossroads. I knew I had options but they were not clear; he guided me during this transition phase. I really appreciated the environment he created (with the help of music and meditation) and the unbiased feedback he provided to me. Aatik helped me question myself and understand what my priorities are and what I want my focus to be. There was a lot of extra noise like doubt and anxiety in me—he helped cut through. He provided me with the clarity I needed. Aatik has an extremely calming presence. His insight and wisdom are transformative for me. — Isra K. (Program Manager)
Receiving coaching from Aatik was a remarkable experience. On a biweekly basis I found myself with an excitement for our sessions and felt compelled to take action afterwards. He has a depth of experience as a meditator, which shows when he occasionally opened our sessions with guided meditation to create space for things to rise to the surface. Getting clarity on what I need and want is an invaluable investment I would do over again. — Luke M. (Founder)
With Aatik’s guidance, I reclaimed my energy and channelled it into projects that genuinely resonate with me. Unlike most people, I felt like he was able to see through my lens. He genuinely listens and asks pinpoint questions that trigger reflection. Working with Aatik helped me zero in on what matters most to me, build a clear action plan, and follow through. All while enjoying the process, without rushing it AND without compromising my performance. — Shaan M. (Management Consultant)